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Post by Ashe on Jun 4, 2009 8:15:31 GMT -5
Carrying another two children might seem heavy but for the sake of their well being and in Gods eyes please (I'm begging) please go to Court with those people and get those kids away from them. I've had enough of the crap that happens to innocent little children. I read a news article that said a Father got high on PCP and ate out on of his sons eyes and mutilated the other. That child will never see again. Had his sight taken from him from a disgusting human being that dares call himself a Parent. I have tried. I've repeatedly called Children Services, they don't do anything. I've called the cops, and they in turn call Children Services and nothing happens. There is only so much I can do because I'm not related to them. If I were, I might be able to demand something done. It really isn't an issue of the load another child or two would make on me, though they would put a strain on me. I do have 3 teen boys myself and I have major problems medically. But my home is always open to kids. Any given day you will find my house full of kids. They seem to find my home the gathering place because they know that I welcome them with open arms and goodies. I do believe my cookies and cakes are the main draw, not their love of my kindness.
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Post by S.T.A.R.S. 2 on Jun 4, 2009 8:50:00 GMT -5
Lol. That does seem to be their Magnet. Man this bites. If I find out anything happens to those kids and I mean ANYTHING. Those people will pay with their Satain lives by my M16 Rifle.
I'm sick of all the problems kids don't deserve.
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Post by Ashe on Jun 4, 2009 8:57:33 GMT -5
I know how you feel. But there really isn't much else I can do about it besides what I already am doing.
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Post by S.T.A.R.S. 2 on Jun 4, 2009 9:04:10 GMT -5
God I hate feeling helpless. That's why I question why I even bothered to become an Army man anyways. In the end the a**holes always win.
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Post by Ashe on Jun 4, 2009 9:27:29 GMT -5
No not always. It's rare, but the good guys do win occasionally. The only thing you can do is to continue to try to make a difference, because if you don't then you become part of the problem.
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Post by S.T.A.R.S. 2 on Jun 4, 2009 9:36:53 GMT -5
I had my own weapon pointed at my head because I know I'm useless. All I do is take orders and patrol. Not very helpful.
Yeah and they're so called "Wins" are very little.
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Post by Ashe on Jun 4, 2009 9:42:29 GMT -5
Please tell my you are joking. And if you are, that's not very funny. You can't let things get to you like that. You may feel your patrolling is useless, but it's not. Even the smallest of jobs have meaning and are worth doing. You may not like doing them, but that doesn't make them bad...
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Post by S.T.A.R.S. 2 on Jun 4, 2009 9:51:31 GMT -5
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Post by tvirusandfriends on Jun 5, 2009 3:08:21 GMT -5
That's so terrible...I'm literally shaking in rage and disgust...You know, it's things like this when I think that humans never should have evolved, we're killing the planet and seem to enjoy harming each other. Honestly I agree with you both 100%. I'm aware that there are individual cases were the child is just a plain out brat and the parents can't do anything about it but there's to many cases for them to be that individual one. And I agree with your law Stars, I back it up 100%. Though it would take A LOT of enforcing...And you should go to the court with those people...that's utterly disgusting....And we are over populated. Though no one except scientists will admit it. People will just say: "no, that's china" but the whole world is over populated. Compare the amount of humans to the amount of animals in their individual species, you'll see we exceed the limit. I'd say every country have a two child limit. And no one should have sex unless they are ready to become a parent. My mom and I were flipping through the channels and "Dr." Phil had a guy on who didn't want to pay child support because he didn't want to be a father. Well tough, then you shouldn't have sex. No protection is 100%. This guy just didn't want to take responsibility...And then it was the same thing with a married couple. They were so upset that the husbands ex girlfriend had a child and wanted child support. They were over dramatizing it saying that it was gonna be such a huge impact...She only had one child. Your not gonna have to pay much for it. People are just sick, sometimes I wish that I could go to another world, or that this one would just end already...most everyone just turns a blind eye to all the problems here.
I agree with Ashe, please don't do such things...In all reality it would only make things worse...And I was wondering...it might not make a difference but it is something...what if we were to make a website about things like this...? But you never know who's attention it'd attract....
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Post by S.T.A.R.S. 2 on Jun 5, 2009 5:59:20 GMT -5
Well I don't know if I could handle a Site like that right now.
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Post by Ashe on Jun 5, 2009 6:32:00 GMT -5
I think I saw that episode of Dr. Phil. Was the guy wanting her to have an abortion? The one I saw the guy said since he wasn't consulted and didn't want children he shouldn't be forced to pay child support. He didn't want a kid yet he had unprotected sex. Go figure... Even in cases where a woman couldn't get pregnant, unprotected sex in this day and age can be deadly. The STD's now kill you instead of giving you the seven year itch....
You're right Tvirus, sometimes the kid is just a brat and no matter what the parents do the kid still acts out and behaves like a delinquent. Unfortunately, these types of situations are not the normal. 9 times out of 10 the parents just don't care. They haven't the time and are more concerned with themselves than the life they created. And even when you do take all the precautions it doesn't always guarantee that they will work.
Take me, I wasn't supposed to be able to get pregnant. All the doctors told me that it was virtually impossible. But did that mean I went without birth control and had unprotected sex? It never even crossed my mind. But even with my medical issues and taking birth control pills it didn't stop me from getting pregnant. My first two kids were both birth control pill babies. And my last son was a DepoPrevara baby. DepoPrevara is one of the strongest forms of birth control for women. It is taken once every 3 months as a shot and is supposed to be the best there is. Yet I have a 12 year old son to prove that birth control doesn't always work.
The way I see it, things are bad with the world and getting worse with each passing day. We can't house and feed all the people there are. The homeless numbers are higher than ever before. Crime is out of hand, and some of it is understandable. I saw a report about a guy who robbed a bank in my state, and he did so because he was desperate to feed his family. And we will only hear about more of this type of thing if things don't change....
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Post by S.T.A.R.S. 2 on Jun 5, 2009 6:35:31 GMT -5
Although I want to help or wanted to help before I'm not making it my business. There's too much crap going on in the world. I'm just going to do my Army duties protecting the US and that's it. Once I retire that's it.
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Post by tvirusandfriends on Jun 6, 2009 3:09:53 GMT -5
I think I saw that episode of Dr. Phil. Was the guy wanting her to have an abortion? The one I saw the guy said since he wasn't consulted and didn't want children he shouldn't be forced to pay child support. He didn't want a kid yet he had unprotected sex. Go figure... Even in cases where a woman couldn't get pregnant, unprotected sex in this day and age can be deadly. The STD's now kill you instead of giving you the seven year itch.... You're right Tvirus, sometimes the kid is just a brat and no matter what the parents do the kid still acts out and behaves like a delinquent. Unfortunately, these types of situations are not the normal. 9 times out of 10 the parents just don't care. They haven't the time and are more concerned with themselves than the life they created. And even when you do take all the precautions it doesn't always guarantee that they will work. Take me, I wasn't supposed to be able to get pregnant. All the doctors told me that it was virtually impossible. But did that mean I went without birth control and had unprotected sex? It never even crossed my mind. But even with my medical issues and taking birth control pills it didn't stop me from getting pregnant. My first two kids were both birth control pill babies. And my last son was a DepoPrevara baby. DepoPrevara is one of the strongest forms of birth control for women. It is taken once every 3 months as a shot and is supposed to be the best there is. Yet I have a 12 year old son to prove that birth control doesn't always work. The way I see it, things are bad with the world and getting worse with each passing day. We can't house and feed all the people there are. The homeless numbers are higher than ever before. Crime is out of hand, and some of it is understandable. I saw a report about a guy who robbed a bank in my state, and he did so because he was desperate to feed his family. And we will only hear about more of this type of thing if things don't change.... I to was born on the pill (But don't let that give you a bad opinion of her, she was married to my dad >.< She's a good person and a wonderful parent. You actually sound a lot like her Ashe). And that guy wanted there to be a limit to when the woman tells the father he is a father, in a matter of days, which is bs cause a woman can't tell if she's pregnant in a matter of days.
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Post by Ashe on Jun 6, 2009 6:57:32 GMT -5
Why would I think badly of your mother because she got pregnant while on the pill? She was being responsible. The fact of the matter is that there is no form of birth control that is 100% effective except abstinence. So accidents do happen, it's how you handle it when it does happen, not that it happened.
My problem with women and pregnancy is all to often any more they have the child then neglect to parent it, instead choosing to hand the problem over to sitters, nannies or the community in which they live. Or they simply are way too young to have a child as they themselves are still children. How in the world do they expect to teach their children how to be productive members of society if they themselves are too young to know how to do that?
The end result is what we are seeing today in our communities. Kids killing kids, kids having kids, kids being disrespectful to their elders etc. It's a vicious cycle that will continue to get worse and worse unless people start to take notice and start correcting the problem.
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Post by S.T.A.R.S. 2 on Jun 6, 2009 7:28:17 GMT -5
In my honest opinion God needs to start over. Whether it's a deadly virus, Comet whatever.
And that time build the world right with no violence.
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