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Post by Phoenix on Oct 15, 2008 3:29:08 GMT -5
Well not so much a high light as a bit of a moan really. I signed into a forum - albeit only really used by me and some friends and discovered that someone had told me to "Chill the F out". Now this was in relation to me discussing a flatmate problem - basically I have an issue if you have a party but leave all the tidying up until 2 days after. Noone likes to eat or prepare food with spilt food and beer bottles about the place.Anyhow thats incidental.. my friend gave me the advice to ( alongside my other flatmate) speak with said messy flatmate and say we are unhappy which we did and everything is now fine. Still I got a little aggravated with the Chill out advice. I mean .. its my flat/apartment so I have to live there, on top of that I have mountains of work to do I have combined essays of 9 thousand words to do by the end of the month on top of my dissertation ( 20 thousand words), my rent payment has not come out of my account yet and it should have done....,and I have hardly any money as it is. Now I would say usually Im quite a chilled person but I dont appreciate being spoken to like that. It was hardly a helpful solution to a problem. Maybe I was being a bit "unchilled" but I cannot stand childish answers like that.
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Post by Ashe on Oct 15, 2008 5:16:59 GMT -5
You have every right to be upset. Those types of responses are uncalled for. I would love to know why people think that talking that way is ok. Why can't they realize it makes them sound like a 2 year old. Having a gutter mouth is not cool, it doesn't attract more people, but drive them away. The only type it would attract would be the same loser type people. Because that is how I view people like that. As losers and punks.
The admin of that site should warn the person. I know I would. I can't tolerate that type of behavior. I feel you can debate and disagree with someone without stooping to insults and flaming. And if you can't then you shouldn't try to converse with people on a forum.
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Post by Phoenix on Oct 15, 2008 9:15:10 GMT -5
^ Thanks you made me feel much better about it Coincidentally my friend is the admin and basically said this person is just to be ignored - they are on a final warning now so.. Still I dont appreciate being sworn at. Its cool though Im over it now On a happy note Im overjoyed to hear that Rose McGowan will be joing Nip/Tuck for four episodes in season six. It will be like a mini Charmed reunion for her and Julian McMahon. Yay! Very excited. I love Rose McGowan.
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Post by tvirusandfriends on Oct 16, 2008 0:08:11 GMT -5
lol Well I'm glad its better now. But yea that person had no place to say that....want me to beat them up for you? XD
I slept all day so if there was a highlight I wouldn't have known lol.
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Post by Phoenix on Oct 16, 2008 2:33:46 GMT -5
^ Ha ha no its okay Ugh I wish I could sleep all day... Ive woken up early ( half past 8) today because tonight I have a nighttime driving course ( you basically take it after you get your licence) and then am going out with my roommates.
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Post by tvirusandfriends on Oct 17, 2008 2:27:19 GMT -5
Oh, well good luck with that.
I had a yummy taco! XD
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Post by JMann on Oct 17, 2008 8:46:49 GMT -5
Don't have work or school today.
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Post by tvirusandfriends on Oct 17, 2008 22:03:47 GMT -5
Um.....I'm going to watch Hellsing while I wait for Craig Ferguson to come on..?
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Post by Phoenix on Oct 18, 2008 17:43:54 GMT -5
Ive spent the entire day trying to put into words the legal context of my dissertation. Not as easy as it sounds... thats like hundreds of years of English legal history in less than 500 words.. because the essay can only be 3000 words in total and I ahve like 5 other sections to write about. Also on a side note Im a little.. annoyed maybe is the word. I want to use hurt but its not that dramatic!Ha ha. Basically my flatmates have all gone out to a mutual friends home for a party and neglected to invite me Now I am thinking this is likely due to the fact they know I have 2 essays due in less than two weeks time and am really not in a partying mood but still I would appreciate being asked. Is that a major paradox? I dunno..A little upset.
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Post by tvirusandfriends on Oct 18, 2008 23:29:20 GMT -5
I know how you feel and I totally understand! I'm gonna try Hellsing again, it didn't work last time....
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Post by Phoenix on Oct 19, 2008 3:35:36 GMT -5
^ Thanks. I wouldn't have minded but they returned about 2am and proceeded to talk and loudly play music until about 5am. Normally this doesnt bother me but when my study schedule dictates I start working at 9am just to get everything finished/worked on it aggravates me a little. Especially since I slept thru my first alarm and had to wash my hair in ten minutes to start work at 9. Annoyed! So listening to my Boyzone! Trying to relax.. ha ha.
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Post by tvirusandfriends on Oct 20, 2008 18:27:12 GMT -5
Well that was quite obnoxious...(on their part) I would have lost it....
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Post by Ashe on Oct 21, 2008 6:48:19 GMT -5
I also don't blame you for being a tad hurt and upset. The least they could have done was to invite you. And if their reasoning behind not asking you to go was that you were so busy with school, then they should have kept the noise level to a minimum. Like TVirus, I'd have lost it and got up and ripped them a new one.
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Post by Phoenix on Oct 21, 2008 8:43:02 GMT -5
^ Ha ha. Well Im trained to stay calm and composed as a law student so... Im quite good at it!Apart from the time .. I got cut up by some dude in the car and then proceeded to call him various names and stick fingers up at him at the traffic lights... oh well. Im awful when Im driving. Today had my dissertation meeting - basically to see if I could borrow a book off my supervisor so have had a good day so far.Course Im now tryign to write my essays but needed an internet forum break ha ha On a side note the new Boyzone song was playing in Debenhams ( a department store) today and theres me signing along whilst riding the escaltor - geting some funny looks. Maybe because I was actually dancing too
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Post by tvirusandfriends on Oct 21, 2008 21:08:46 GMT -5
Haha.^^
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